She refuses to date any sensor because she won't get any intuition out of them. Based of the Jungian functions, everyone's a sensor/intuitive. Exactness (the date) is not as important to her as the symbol (marriage). Much of the frustration a Sensor has with an Intuitive comes when. as far as "sensor vs. intuitive" and dating i know that a pairing of opposites supposedly has the most potential for growth, but then again.
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They strive to find these things throughout life, careers, interests, friends, family, and even romantic partners. Dominant Sensing types are often attracted to passing pleasures, sensual experiences, going out and about into the world, seeking practical explanations howand to fully indulge in the present moment.
Both have very different styles of communication, just as much as the ways in which they perceive and judge everything around them. This goes for both Extraverts and Introverts, as well as Feelers and Thinkers. While the N-dominant might want to dive deep into philosophical conversation and abstract thought, the S-dominant might soon be bored or distracted with their particular style of communication.
Introverted Intuition This is because S-types will want to get involved in visible, easily bendable things. Without them, the Sensing types can get carried away and step on the pride of the Intuitive types, creating friction.ENTP Discusses Sensor/iNtuitive Relationships, Possible Or NO? - Myers Briggs Personality Types MBTI
Emotional and Thinking needs not met. Can develop self-esteem issues. For most, and I might dare to say all N-dominant types have one extremely clear objective and goal that always keeps on floating around in their conscious mind. And that objective often is to share or influence the world around them with their insights and intuition.
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They rarely keep truly crucial discoveries to themselves and fully enjoy a conversation, or gentle circumstance, in which they are able to share the wonderful things that they have learned, are interested in and want more knowledge about.
In fact, if you look deeper into it, they might as well serve for that same, greater purpose. Though they just happen to present themselves in a different manner, with varying approaches. Not only that, but it only adds fuel to the fire in this case.
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For S-types to redeem themselves with their Intuitive counterparts, there has to be a common agreement. One where one tries to converse and politely excuse themselves when presented with information overload, and one where the individual vows to listen. Both of these issues as I have previously mentioned, often happen as a result of immaturity. I had a strong need to start with that, the thought of hurting innocent strangers feelings makes me cringe internally.
I spend a lot of time analyzing and reanalyzing my past relationships.
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Each relationship would last about a month of so, but I would eventually find myself completely misunderstood. Kind of like If thinking were colors they were thinking in terms of blue, red, yellow, ect. I would be thinking in terms of periwinkle, cornflower, violet. Talking to them became unsatisfying. In retrospect, I never had any deep conversation that led to a better understanding of the others thinking. An insatiable desire to think "what if Eventually i would get bored, then leave.
And all of the guys that I have talked to had interest inbut refused to date have been intuitive. Still fascinated by their intuitive thinking, I would try to keep them as friends, unrequiting their love.
Of course time and time again this fails I guess what I'm trying to get at is I'm fascinated by all types to an extent, but sensory people are too easy to decode for me, they leave me wanting. I constantly find sensors being attracted to me ironically a surprising amount of ISTJ's.
I feel guilty always turning them down, but I know that my attraction to them would be limited before I became distracted with something newer and interesting.